Guilty of Codependency.

IMG_3930So, the other day, I was reading an article and I was like….. This slightly describes me, whether I want to admit it or not.

I choose to always be transparent with my readers because I never want you all to feel like I think that I am better than you all or that I am perfect, because I am far from it. That is why I share and write articles like this.

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As I read that article, a few things in particular stuck out to me… I am always giving out to people, to the point where I have nothing left for myself. I constantly overextend myself, and while that is my heart and that is okay (to a certain extent), you must draw your boundaries with people and take care of yourself FIRST.

Learning that can be so painful something because my heart always wants to give to people, no matter how much I have left for myself in the end. My friend pointed out, though, that it was a sign of insecurity, not a true heart of giving. It convicted me.

As I go through this transition period in my life to my calling, Yah has been ridding me of all things that don’t look like Him: personality wise, in what I wear, in what I do, in what I say and etc.

“And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue His work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns.” {Philippians 1:6 NLT}

It is time for a change. Things are rapidly shifting, and many, many things cannot move into this next season of my life. This, is one of them.

XOXOXOXOX,
Dancing Dreamss.

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